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If you truly want love then you have to consider how you approach love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Make your relationship last with these 10 loving tips.
10. Sharing likes. Some people hide their needs. Ironically you should let your partner/friend be aware of your likes – perhaps that is a better way than saying needs. Treat your likes as a way of sharing who you are.
4. Games add spice but not the blame game. This is one game that results in people never wanting to play again or putting up so many defenses that there is no game,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Break down defenses by using the language of ‘I feel,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].”
7. Another goal to is to reach the deepest form of love. The deepest form of love goes past the heady passionate time. At that stage some couples think the relationship is over and give up. Ironically if the couple continues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they may reach the land of the deepest love.
5. What are the goals of a relationship? Yes relationships have goals and the greatest goal is to be more intimate and to do things that foster intimacy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
9. Listen Up. If you have ever taught young children you will know that getting them to listen is one of the challenges of teaching. It can be the same in a relationship but you need to start with yourself first and think about do you really listen with your ears and your eyes in your relationship? If you think you are always right then you are in need of a listening tune up. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is more positive to listen without any judgment of who is right or wrong because if you do, you are keeping scores which is detrimental in a relationship.
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6. Hard bargain – the healthiest relationships are not about calculating an exact exchange – there will be times when each gives more or receives more – keep up the giving and the gracious receiving as much as possible.
1. Find a way never to criticize – even the type that is believed to be constructive. Instead think of ways to help and support and just do it. Always have the mindset that there must be good reasons why they behave in the way they do.
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2. Absolute compatibility is a myth – but think about it – would you really be happy if you were exactly the same? Variety is the spice of life, so look upon the differences as adding the vim and zip to life and your friendship/relationship.
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A number of things can shake up a person's life, but divorce is definitely one of the biggest. Whether you initiated it or not, dealing with the aftermath takes a great deal of emotional fortitude.
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Look out into the front row,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], make eye contact with an audience member and, if
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Use these techniques when you give your next presentation and you'll no longer
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message, but you'll delve even deeper into the hearts and minds of your audience.
All of sudden,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],one character freezes. The other turns to the audience and remarks: 'You think he's angry now... just wait until the second act when he discovers I'm sleeping with his wife!' The audience LAUGHS. The actor then goes back 'into the scene.'
Once Chuck answers, repeat his response to the whole room. Now you've made your speech interactive and taken it to a whole new level. You've 'Broken the Fourth Wall' by a) including audience member Chuck and b)getting a laugh (hopefully) by making fun of a targeted problem that customer service reps deal with every day.
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Picture two characters on stage having a passionate argument.
This is called 'Breaking the Fourth Wall.' In this instance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the character is
drawing the audience into the scene more by giving them information that the
other character is not privy too.
'Chuck, you're a bright guy - I know this because you're the customer service
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Persuasive public speaking is all about connecting with your audience. One of the quickest ways to heighten your audience connection is to use a theatre acting technique called 'Breaking the Fourth Wall.
You can do the same thing with your public speaking to make your speech
interactive and develop a deeper connection with your audience. If during your
speech you have a specific point to make-- stop!
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Whether you are looking for a job, firmly ensconced in one, or in the midst of starting your own business, improving the sound of your voice is something you might consider especially if the sound of your voice on recording equipment leaves much to be desired.
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One of my clients recently asked me to define real love. I rattled off a list and later thought it might benefit others to write about it here. So here is my list of the beliefs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], attributes, and precepts that define real love (with the caveat that I’m not sure that anyone understands love in its totality!):
Transitions are always opportunities for growth and healing. Sometimes we need to heal ways of being in the world that are no longer serving us – like my clients who realize, through the wedding planning, that they’re suffering from the disease to please and that they need to learn how to put themselves first. Sometimes transitions provide opportunities to expand our internal resources – like the new mother who thinks she doesn’t have enough patience to handle the needs of her newborn and yet, through time and the immensity of her love, her patience grows. And sometimes transitions require that we redefine an entire belief system that has governed our way of viewing the world and relationships – like the majority of my clients who realize during their engagement that a large portion of their anxiety is caused by their unhealthy and false beliefs about the nature of love.
If the object of the longing, often called “the beloved”,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], does reciprocate, “the lover” often runs the other way. And so begins an all-too familiar game of chase with each participant alternating between the pursuer or distancer roles. The game is emotionally intense but ultimately unsatisfying. The bottom line is that real intimacy never occurs. It’s dramatic but safe. It’s temporarily painful but there’s no long-term risk involved. And it certainly isn’t a healthy model on which to base a marriage!
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Real love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], on the other hand, requires that both people show up for each other in the same place at the same time. There is no game-playing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which creates more consistent stability in terms of the intensity of emotion; gone are the ecstatic highs and despairing lows that defined the unhealthy relationships of the past. As such,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], real love requires that both people risk their hearts to form a bond of true intimacy.
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If you’ve grown up in Western culture, you’ve been inundated from the time you were born with images and beliefs about love. Most,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if not all, of these images are predicated on the archaic paradigm of Romantic Love. Romantic love is not real love. Romantic love is, most simply put, infatuation. It’s based on the model of longing for someone that you can never completely have, and it’s this longing that then becomes mistaken for real love. Being in a state of longing is a dramatic and fully alive experience. It creates butterflies in your belly and light-headedness in your mind. If not understood properly, the one in the longing position can easily believe that she or he is “in love.”
1. Real love is a conscious choice that often employs the rational part of our brains. Some couples have a “free ride” in the early stages of their relationship where they experience the intense feelings characterized by romantic love, but not everyone. And these feelings certainly aren’t necessary for real love to emerge as the relationship grows, as evidenced by the success rate of arranged marriages in other parts of the world. It’s when the infatuation feelings diminish that the couple has to learn that love is a choice, not a feeling, as M. Scott Peck says in “The Road Less Traveled.”
2. Real love accepts that your partner is a fallible, imperfect human, just as you are. Unlike romantic life, which ascends the object of desire to the realm of a god, part of the jolt down to earth that many of clients experience during their engagement is the realization that their partner is not perfect – that he isn’t as smart or witty or fun or good-looking as she thought the person she would marry would be. The romantic bubble of marrying Prince Charming is burst. Most of my clients focus on one missing area – sometimes to the point of obsession – and it’s often an attribute that never bothered her before they were engaged. As time passes, the real fears are addressed, and love is redefined, the obsession mellows and she learns to accept and fully love her partner exactly as he is.
3. Real love ebbs and flows in terms of interest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ease, and feelings. In other words, in any healthy relationship there will be times when things effortlessly work, where the spark is alive and the couple is interested in one another and life. And there will be times of, for lack of a better word, boredom. Part of accepting real love is understanding that the boredom is normal and not a symptom that something is wrong with the relationship or that you don’t love your partner enough.
4. Real love is based on shared values and a solid friendship. You genuinely like each other (even though you might not like everything about your partner),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
5. Real love is action. Real love asks that you give even when you don’t feel like giving (in a healthy way, not a codependent way). Real love is more concerned with how you can give to your partner than what you can get from him or her.
6. Real love is a spiritual practice in that your focus is not how you can change your partner to alleviate your anger,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], pain, or annoyance but how you can assume full responsibility for those feelings and find healthy and constructive ways to attend to them. When you change in positive ways, the relationship will positively change as well.
7. Real love is a lifelong practice. You’re not expected to know how to give and receive real love at the onset of marriage, but are expected to work at it so that over the course of your life together your capacity to love grows. See my article “Marriage is a Work-in-Progress” for more on this point.
So the next time you watch a romantic comedy and find yourself doubting if you love your wonderful, supportive, honest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], loving partner enough, read over this list and see if your anxiety finds containment as you redefine what love really is.
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Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
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The claim made on tape by Choi Kyu-sun, that officials from Cheong Wa Dae and the National Intelligence Service tried to persuade him to secretly leave the country,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], can be a clue into finding who is behind the numerous entangled scandals surrounding the Kim Dae-jung government. The prosecution must find out the truth behind his claim,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in spite of any attempts at political interference.
There are three major issues listening to Choi's tape. Firstly why did the former head of the National Police Agency's Special Investigations Division,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Choe Seong-kyu try so desperately to get Choi to leave the country with him? All allegations surrounding the scandals so far,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as Choi using Kim Hong-gul's name to get special advantages and him giving the president's third son huge sums of money, are insufficient for Choe to have urged flight,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], saying the "prosecution and Cheong Wa Dae are trembling and there may even be a situation in which the president will have to step down."
Another question is the identity of the two NIS officials who attended a meeting with Choe and recommended Choi's leaving the country. If the meeting indeed took place,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it provides evidence that there was a master plan by the government. Thirdly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who is the person who ordered the meeting where such serious matters were discussed?
So far,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is only unilateral claims by Choi and Cheong Wa Dae have denied their authenticity, saying it will take legal action. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the tape-recorded statement has so much detail, it is difficult to treat it simply as being made up; Choi alleges Choe said "everything is ready Kyu-sun,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], let's leave" and "the prosecution and Cheong Wa Dae are trembling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and I too am worried; I packed already before coming here. The prosecution must mobilize everything to find out the truth on behalf of the people.
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Let’s start with the falling in love part. What are we actually falling in love with? Stated simply, we fall in love with those bits and pieces of ourselves that we have not yet recognized,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but that we find (via projection) in the partner. Is she tender and understanding? Is he funny and the center of the party? Is she strong and enterprising? Is he confident, with a great sense of integrity? All of those qualities may well be part of your partner’s character, but the fact that you fell in love with those specific traits, tells you that they are actually part of your own character as well.
Songs so often say it all: “Can’t Live, if Livin’ is Without You”, “I Need Your Lovin’”, “Ain’t No Sunshine When She’s Gone”, “I Fall to Pieces”, It’s You I Need to Take the Blues Away, It Must be Love, “Without You I am Nothing”, “I’m Drowning Without Your Love”, If you Leave, I Won’t be Able to Breathe”,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc.
So how do we typically grow? By going through an experience of some sort that may not be easy. We grow at school by learning, studying, and taking exams. We grow in life by becoming more aware, and we generally tend to become more aware when some life experience obliges us to do so.
Let’s examine what happens in a typical love scenario…
Does Needing Mean You Really Love?
So why do we become needy in relationships? Of the roughly 40% men and 60% women that come to my private practice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], many would initially answer that ‘needing’ your love partner is how it should be. But why should love imply a feeling that almost always develops into something negative, and at best, makes those who feel it, as said at the beginning of this article, that they could not live without the beloved, thus ‘proving’ in their minds,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that this is really love? Is that really what love is all about?
Can it be Solved?
An external need, in others words, when we depend on something external to ourselves for our well-being, frequently carries within it the seeds of failure. In the case of a relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it may often be the cause of power plays between the two people, the less needy one being the one to dominate the relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the needier one to resentfully accept this dominance due to his or her need for the other partner.
Obsessiveness, Possessiveness, or the Need to Control
Jung and the Intelligent Psyche
So what does it mean? Does it really mean that loving someone implies that we need the other person so much that we simply feel we can not go on without them? Or could all that be a fallacy?
Songs Say it All
Since you do not yet manifest those qualities, because you have not yet recognized them in yourself, you need your partner to be able to ‘be in touch with’ that part of you. That is what ‘hooks’ you on your partner. Your partner’s presence in your life gives you contact to those parts of you that you have not yet developed, making you feel that your partner is absolutely indispensable to your well-being.
The message each of those songs gives is that when the person we love is no longer with us, we can’t go on. We need that person to be able to stay alive…at least figuratively speaking. Without the person we love, we are nothing, we can not bear to live.
So what is the solution? Simple to state, less simple to execute (mainly because it requires some of that inner discipline that most of us don’t want to exercise): work on those bits of yourself that you catch a glimpse of in the beloved. Examine yourself to see where they might reside in you. Work at developing them; growing them. If you do this, I guarantee you that the next time you fall in love, it will be with a smaller degree of external need, and hence, a greater degree of internal freedom. Or, if you remain with the same person,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your love will grow into something infinitely more loving.
Why is it that so often when we feel we are in love, we also feel we are in bondage if anything happens to shake the feeling of “security” in the love? Why does love so often make us dependent on the other person? Shouldn’t love be a marvelous and freeing feeling rather than these other sensations of need and fear and dependence?
Typical Love Scenario
So then, when something happens to the relationship, or your partner leaves, or threatens to leave, is when the strong feelings of need arise. This is the time when you should realize that these strong feelings of need are a vast red flag letting you know something is going on inside of you that only you can do something about. If you ignore it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or translate it into “I was deeply wounded by my partner”, or “my partner did not return my feelings when I most needed him/her, so I guess that means I always choose the wrong people”, or “next time I will choose better, so that this kind of thing never happens to me again”, then instead of resolving your inner dilemma, you will merely perpetuate it by maintaining the status quo inside of you, falling in love with yet another person that puts you in touch with bits of you that you have not yet recognized in yourself, and thus setting yourself up to be ‘needy’.
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By extrapolating, we might say that in relationships we grow most quickly through experiences that are not necessarily easy. And going back to Jung, he clearly proposes that throughout the course of our lives it is our psyche that in its infinite intelligence leads us to be attracted to precisely those individuals who most have the potential to be instruments in our individual growth. In order for that to work, evidently we first have to be fully in relationship with those people. So we fall in love, we begin to feel that our happiness depends in some measure on the other person, and so begins our need of that person.
Carl Gustav Jung said that our psyche is so infinitely intelligent that it attracts us to certain individuals (as certain individuals’ psyche causes them to be attracted to us) in order that we experience precisely that which we need to grow,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. (See my April 2006 Newsletter: Committed Relationships: Use Them to Grow Towards Self-Understanding and Real Love).
Note: look for an article in the near future about need in love relationships that is the consequence of an early dysfunctional relationship with one of the parents. This may cause the individual to grow up believing that love means hurting in some way. Then, when the individual finds someone who ‘plays’ that role for him/her, that person becomes necessary to the first person’s emotional survival – or so it is believed. The need that arises from this has more to do with a lack of self-esteem or poor boundaries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], than with getting in touch with unrecognized bits of the self,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and thus the work that needs to be done is on one’s self esteem in connection with the construction of healthy boundaries.
Boy meets girl (man meets woman), chemistry, infatuation, bliss, love, we’ve all been there and know how that part of it goes. But what is really happening? Raging hormones answer only a small part of the question, even though they can create a vast impact. An article in the weekend supplement of Spain’s daily El Mundo (8/7/06) refers to University of Pisa’s Donatella Marazziti’s work on romantic love activating parts of the brain associated with addiction. She has found that falling in love is a bit like going crazy from the point of view of brain chemicals and hormones (see also New Scientist).
Wouldn’t it make more sense to assume that love means freedom rather than independence? (See my article Are You in Love, or Do You Love?). So what does needing our partner tell us?
External vs Internal Needs
Falling In Love With Yourself…
Power plays are not the only manifestation of relationships mired in mutual need. Another frequent expression is obsessiveness or possessiveness, or a need to control. And you can imagine – if you haven’t been there – the kind of resentment and negative feelings that this can generate on the part of both people. Akin to any substance addiction, obsessiveness or possessiveness or the need to control can take people to hellish places in their hearts and minds that few of us would wish to visit. I have created an entire workshop on this topic, because although this type of addiction is often masked by a veneer of sophistication, it occurs more frequently than most people suspect,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and makes the existence of those that suffer from it a living nightmare.
And while we all know that this is not exactly true, most of us have certainly been in the position of feeling something akin to those words.
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Create a “recollection collection” scrapbook filled with favorite photographs, love letters, keepsakes from special occasions, and cherished mementos such as concert tickets or postcards from places you’ve traveled together.
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Then, when I gave her a hug later on, she kissed me on the cheek or neck a couple of times, and I accused her of kissing me a lot,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc. (The idea is that she’s into me and she’s the aggressor.) One part of this is me doing something (holding her hand) and then accusing her of doing it (“no hand holding this early”).
Finally, after the meal was finished, I reached out for her hand, and she wouldn’t take mine because I had teased her so much. So I actually grabbed her hand and held it and massaged it. This was teasing and teasing...and when she finally gave up, I gave it to her.
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They love this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as men are hardly ever in control. And they secretly want someone who is. (It’s VERY important not to become the ‘friend/therapist’ with this information... and start kissing their ass! The idea is to use it to bust on them and not to be understanding.)
This kind of behavior,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], sending mixed messages,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to women it’s magic. Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure them out’ early on in the game and have their number... and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do things. This gets them all freaked out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as they feel like you’re in control, and they don’t know what to do next... like you know all the games they’re playing and won’t fall for any of their old tricks... this makes them nervous as they don’t have any POWER OR AMMO!
I also tell women early on that I think they’ll make a nice ‘friend’.
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It’s funny to see how the friendship frame works with them, because this gets them thinking often for the first time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Wow,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], maybe I just found a man who is smarter than me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], knows my little games, and has higher standards than me for once... and now he’s talking about being ‘just friends’! Oh no! Doesn’t he like me? Doesn’t he want me like all the other guys?” A key here is to always keep them guessing... never get too into them or they’ll get right into their old games, etc.
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Although nebulizers are no longer widely used in modern medicine they are still favoured in certain circumstances. Nebulisers are essentially an out dated design that have been largely eclipsed by metered-dose and powdered inhalers in the treatment of conditions such as asthma. However although old fashioned,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nebulizers are still effective and useful for treating severe respiratory conditions.
- Jet Nebulizers – these devices are driven by compressed gas. One of the reasons the usage of jet nebulisers has declined in recent years is they are very inefficient. Only 10% of the liquid drug can be turned into small enough aerosol particles to be effectively inhaled into the lungs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The rest of the drug can be wasted as it is exhaled or trapped in the internal apparatus of the nebuliser.
Nebulisers are still commonly used for the treatment of serious conditions such as chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), cystic fibrosis,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], HIV/AIDS and bronchiectasis. Treatment with these devices will be prescribed and carefully monitored by doctors. It will depend on the type of drugs you need to take for your condition as to which type of nebuliser system you have to use. Not all drugs can be delivered through nebulizers and so in some cases you will be recommended to use metered-dose or powdered inhalers.
Nebulisers can provide immediate relief for patients suffering from breathing difficulties. This can be a frightening experience and can result in serious problems if not treated quickly. Nebulizers and inhalers significantly reduce the need for patients to seek emergency medical attention for their respiratory condition,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. They will be able to administer their own drugs quickly and easily without any special training or assistance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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One of the main advantages of nebulisers is the option of facemasks. These are useful for children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], senior and mobility impaired patients that find inhalers difficult to use. Facemasks are often preferred by patients suffering from serious respiratory attacks. They can deliver the drug effectively to the lungs in emergency situations and help patients to regain control over their breathing.
Nebulisers are used to deliver aerosol particles of medicine directly to the throat and lungs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This is a highly effective way of treating a wide number of respiratory conditions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. There are number of different systems available for nebulizer devices,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This includes:
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Facemasks are not recommended for the delivery of nebulised corticosteroids as these can cause severe irritation if they come into contact with eyes and skin,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
- Ultrasonic Nebulizers - these devices are driven by ultrasonically vibrating piezoelectric crystals. These agitate the drug molecules so that they turn into aerosol particles,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Ultrasonic nebulisers are more efficient than the jet versions and they are also a lot quieter and more compact.
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The liver is extremely important. It's responsibly for filtering out toxins and waste material from the blood. A badly performing liver makes for a badly performing body and a badly performing body makes for cancer.
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If you 'fail' at your online business attempts it will only reinforce your own self doubts! Additionally and even more powerful is the loss of any financial investment and the possibility of ridicule! Unfortunately if you possess fears like this, they can actually keep you from living your dreams by adopting the feeling if you don't try, you can't fail!
If your personal history is littered with setbacks or unfulfilled promises your mindset is probably in need of an adjustment! When your past experiences are predominantly negative,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so will,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in most cases be your attitude therefore convincing you that living your dreams is NOT a realistic notion! For people like this dreaming is one thing but taking action only seems to be a waste of time!
Motivation
Let's look at 7 common factors that keep people from taking action when it comes to 'winning' their financial freedom as an internet entrepreneur!
Are you guilty of allowing certain factors or circumstances to hold you back from living your dreams as a successful internet entrepreneur? For countless many, achieving success on the internet can be both exciting as well as intimidating! Even though the financial and technical barriers involved are almost non-existent it seems their biggest obstacle is simple taking action! Why is that?
This is a very common 'dilemma' facing anybody who has ever conducted a search online! Search engines are notorious for sending you more than you need! When researching business opportunities, products or marketing strategies it's typical to be faced with so many choices that you can easily be overwhelmed! The resulting 'analysis paralysis' will then in turn keep people from taking action of any nature!
Lack of Confidence
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Even though starting an online business my be your dream,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], do you still feel like there is something that continues to hold you back! Well you're not alone! For many the biggest obstacle when it comes to realizing their dreams of achieving financial success as an internet entrepreneur is just taking action! The 7 most common factors that may be keeping even you from living your dreams of entrepreneurial success online are reviewed above and in all cases are found entrenched in your mindset! Be it a fear of failure, low self esteem or just lacking motivation, you must first address these issues to improve your quality of life! Remember just one thing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it's your life and if positive changes are what you seek, it all starts with your first taking action! Never let others or even yourself stop you from living your dreams and finding financial success online!
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Dreaming big is one thing but living your dreams, in most cases,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], takes plenty of motivation! To be an internet entrepreneur who experiences any degree of success you'll need to be very self motivated! Lazy people need not apply if you lack the internal drive to start up and manage any type of business online! Remember,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if you want to be your own boss,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you and only you will be responsible to get things done!
We've all got family, friends and/or acquaintances who unknowingly project a negative attitude that affects those around them! When folks 'offer' their doubts about your ambitious intentions to 'take the internet by storm' this tends to erode you're own confidence or sabotage any positive feelings you have!
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Most people looking to earn an income online have little or no experience managing businesses or even themselves,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! This leads to an obvious lack of confidence which can undermine their attempts when making decisions or putting any newly acquired knowledge to work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]!
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As mentioned above most of those who turn to the internet in hopes of earning a living lack management experience! Well managing your own time is of equal or greater importance if you want to be successful online,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! Many realize in the early stages that they are lacking in this area but by taking action to strengthen these skills are able to go on and become a success,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! In the majority of cases these people are in the minority since most others take the attitude it's not worth the effort and go no further,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]!
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Today, customers and clients are hard to get but they can be so easy and quick to lose. One small thing could go wrong and maybe you didn't even see it. The next thing you know, or even worse you don't know, and you have lost a high paying client for good.
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A US$200 million foreign direct investment will be made for the first time in the country for the construction of a social overhead capital project. The attraction of foreign investment into the country for a social overhead capital project is unprecedented. The Ministry of Maritime Affairs and Fisheries said Sunday that Samsung Corp. has been engaged in the construction of a container berth at Inchon port as a private developer. The ministry also announced that the Port of Singapore Authorities (PSA) confirmed its intention to invest US$200 million into the Inchon port project,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], saying the investment contract is scheduled to be signed on Monday. PSA will invest US$150 million in the port facilities and US$50 million in the operating equipment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and will directly operate the container berth. The ministry said that it expects to gain technical know-how in port management and operation from PSA which is known as a world leader in the field of port operation.
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The greatest factor the recent rise of these summer diseases, however, seems to have been the closure of 3 health centers, 74 rural health centers, and 93 health diagnosis centers last year due to government policies aimed at reducing public health organization personnel and facilities.
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Using this website, you will be able to find the ideal holiday for you and your family, and provide the feeling of peace, calm, health and vitality that you want and deserve. No matter where you want to take your yoga holidays, the possibilities are virtually endless. You can choose from options such as Africa, Australasia, North America, Central America, South America, Europe, the Caribbean and more. Each of these countries has a variety of featured wellness and yoga holidays,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as well as personalized opportunities in every way, to ensure that your holiday is relaxing, stress free and truly enjoyable. No matter what you are looking for in your yoga holidays, whether you are looking for a detoxification, luxury spa, stunning monuments and vibrant backdrops, you will be able to find these and many more at the extensive variety of you holidays available on this exciting website. So, kick back,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], relax and enjoy your next vacation when you choose the best yoga holidays available around the world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with all-inclusive opportunities, see you can truly relax and enjoy your long awaited and well-deserved vacation.
Some of the destinations include Bali, Thailand, South France, Spain and Seychelles. When you book your yoga holidays on this website, they will provide you with your retreat venue,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all of your dietary requirements that you may have, flights, transfers, transportation and any other needs. With such a wide variety of the world's most stunning wellness retreats, yoga holidays and luxury spa opportunities, you will be able to take advantage of a variety of programs and therapeutic packages available at each one. Some of these packages can include Pilates, yoga,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], weight loss, holistic spa menus that use ayurvedic and panchakarma medicine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], traditional healing techniques,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], addiction treatment, organic oils and much more.
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Instead of spending hours scouring the Internet to find the ideal holiday vacation spot for you, you may want to check out a new website that takes care of all of this legwork for you. They provide the most innovative and exquisite variety of yoga holidays available around the world. They understand that wellness retreats, luxury spa and yoga holidays should be relaxing and enjoyable. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], searching for the ideal yoga holidays can be stressful and . Taking. Instead of worrying about where to go, flights, transfers, dietary needs and more, this is an exciting new website available that provides you the most stunning yoga holidays you could possibly imagine from around the world.
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While we are surrounded by pollutants from the environment, the human body produces its own toxins. Our metabolic processes result in chemical wastes which can compromise our health.
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I never tried to pursue the heart of love, because I and the general women have some degree of reserved emotions. Although I am no longer is the first awakening interest in the opposite sex, but still can be put into the heart of love lows, still fall in love easily.
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These are my brother
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many years ago they accompany me and never abandon
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roll out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], carrying,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], transporting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], support
my life is just so easy
there was a time when I jumped into the commercial sea
and money to shake hands,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with the customer to
stacks joy let me meet
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I often fall into the endless void
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with
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in this lifetime
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I often write down a large seemingly beautiful words to express their thought. City sister said: "too flowery words sometimes makes people as no soul of poetry that worry......" How should I say, the wearer knows where the shoe pinches.
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it is said that the ants to migrate
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afar
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form a effect of swallowing bur
how also unable to take off
the Chuiladanchang team
to plastic bag blowing
a cigarette Kung Fu
season gone
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when you sleep soundly
it to shout at dawn
in this turn the world upside down day
huqin dusty
suona tracheal obstruction
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although no water
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enjoying flies mating
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a happy burp
mocking a picture of the painting
this is Jian Qiang Gong and drum
become softly
to see who the most sexy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who is the most charming
no matter who is in the wine on the XX
will drink
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repeatedly chewing Jiangshan beauty
sweet and sweet words will flow into the ear channel
or prostitution prostitution light assassination
he's really not letting this go lie
as the burning regiment heat
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I often write down a large seemingly beautiful words to express their thought. City sister said: "too flowery words sometimes makes people as no soul of poetry that worry......" How should I say, the wearer knows where the shoe pinches.
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The government will announce price differences for 30 products in the domestic and overseas markets to pinpoint any distortion in retail or a monopoly or oligopoly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Besides 11 items already on the list,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 19 products including iPhones and disposable contact lenses have been newly added to reflect changes in people's lifestyle.
The government has released the information for 11 goods since May 2008,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The Fair Trade Commission said the information for all 30 will be available by November at the latest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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The analysis showed that women’s age at marriage, which affects the age of pregnancy, rose from 24.9 years in 1990 to 28.1 in 2007, and women gave birth to an average of 1.26 babies in 2007, down from two in 1980.
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