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Even being vulnerable won’t insure people will love you
Even telling the truth brings pain
And I offer myself to love, to deeply step into the void of love’s embrace
In comes the saboteur – a friend built from the ego
It has many ways of functioning
Some from thoughts some from fears
All from the ego’s perspective of ‘I will show them all’
No longer will I allow someone to touch my wounds without honor, care and deep reverence
My question is when can I practice with someone who will honor himself AND me
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These personalities fit the profiles of battered spouses; men and women. They may feel so guilty over their hostile wishes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feelings etc., that they are at the mercy of efforts on the part of the batterer to justify what is unjustifiable. If the attacks continue a point is reached where the battered party will feel so bad about themselves and so resentful of the aggression that they will flee what has become a re-living of their role as child and identify with the aggressor,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the aggressive parent from the family of origin. It’s not uncommon for these folks to wind up in court arrested for a domestic violence incident when in fact, the police reports read largely like muggings and they are the ones who have been mugged. Once again two wrongs don’t make a right but, the mentality of an angry victim is not unlike the mentality of a child who identifies with what he has learned.
When these folks come into my office not only do they bring their chronic tales of woe, they also bring with them the guarantee that I will be asked to enact with them scenarios similar to the ones they describe to me. We call such enactments, compulsions to repeat history. If we are victims of history then, we have to find ways to control its impact on us. We will try and shape that which we know how to deal with: To control its influence, destroy its influence or change its influence. The compulsion is indisputable evidence that we are not willing/able to mourn our losses and move on.
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Being self defeating means by definition putting yourself in harms’ way even if you don’t see it that way. These folks are notorious for not seeing red lights and red flags. When their scenarios do not play out according to expectations shaped long ago by what happened growing up, these individuals can get downright aggressive. As an example,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I recall a woman who worried herself sick over her son whenever he was traveling. She would use her obsessive worries as a moral justification to call him incessantly until she reached him. When her son found her self- righteous defense of her mothering role manipulative and annoying his mother would try to induce guilt by portraying herself as the paragon of motherhood who was unappreciated by her son. When such tactics only escalated her son’s disapproval of her she would rage in a desperate attack on him as being everything he wasn’t but in fact, she was being in the moment; self centered, spiteful and vindictive. Hey, what did she have if her glorification of self sacrifice got her nothing for her time and trouble?
People don’t fall into neat little categories no matter how hard we try to classify them. Still, in my psychotherapy practice I do notice a strong correlation between folks with chronic anger management problems and those who exhibit self defeating personality traits. These clients’ identities are often organized around a core belief that they are “victims” by virtue of the fact that they continue to suffer from parental improprieties long after growing up and leaving home. As much as these clients express sincere wishes to move forward with their lives, making these wishes a reality are easier said than done. Each and every time they are angry, the experiences feel as if salt is being poured on their incompletely healed emotional scars. “Forgiving their parents” can be as disposable a goal as used toilet paper is a disposable commodity. With the fervor of evangelists they will settle for no less than one of the following: 1) An end to their pain and suffering, 2) An escape from their pain and suffering, 3) Revenge or 4) Special entitlements to compensate them for their misfortunes. It doesn’t matter whether they recall their parents as being miscreants of the most premeditated variety, or just very limited and clueless about what motivated apparently automatic and mindless methods of parenting. They hold tenaciously to demands that the justice be served.
By now you may have probably read between the lines and figured out that victims beget victims. These folks are condemned to remain victims until they develop the mindset that they can change themselves. Short of that they walk around wearing their unhappiness on their sleeves as their currency for paying for what they feel entitled to. You may know such people like you know yourselves. They are notorious for apologizing for anything and everything. They apologize for taking up space, breathing too much air or they will even ask permission to go to the bathroom. The message is that they do not feel entitled to much and they assiduously ask for little to avoid frustrations and disappointments because if they do not get what they feel entitled to for all their suffering they are likely to feel that they are being attacked as completely worthless and blame others for contemptible feelings that bubble to the surface. I’m referring to all that they regard to be evil and destructive which they will desperately need someone to assign blame for.
This begs the question: How could that be that they are not responsible? Well, it’s not the case. They believe that managing these problems should not be their jobs because they didn’t bargain with their parents to be saddled with such problems. Thus, they link “not deserving” such a fate with not needing to own and manage these problems. They’re scared to death that they might not be able to do anything about their problems and might be condemned to a lifetime of suffering. Now that’s quite a parental legacy to have to shoulder! So they resist committing themselves to fixing their problems because they find the unfairness and injustice of it all intolerable to come to terms with. They keep banging their heads against the walls in broad daylight hoping that others who watch them suffer will suffer right along with them. The message implicit in misery seeking company is: “Will you stop standing there and please do something to end my suffering!”
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In my psychotherapy practice I help these folks in a variety of ways. 1) I model healthy self interest and both encourage them and expect them to do so. In other words, I try to instill hope in a future of higher self regard by modeling what I hope to they will learn to identify with. I treat these clients with respect as capable of growing, changing and coping with unfairness and injustice in life that we all must learn to accept, to be reasonably happy. 2) I normalize all the feelings they believe are evil and destructive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], establish ground rules for acceptable ways of expressing them, mirror expressions of these feelings with acceptance and understanding, and reassure my clients that they will not destroy me with their anger. I also reassure them that I will not retaliate should they express anger and disappointment towards myself. 3) I encourage, and acknowledge their expressions of healthy self interest and resist rewarding self defeating actions. Conversely,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I model healthy self interest. 4) In addition, I also model healthy assertions of authority to empower my clients to challenge their guilt, challenge time honored notions that glorify self sacrifice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and neutralize their attacks on themselves that for so long had left their self esteem and mood in ruins. 5) We reframe their anger as an emotion that is a starting point to assess what they are not getting too little of or too much of that they don’t deserve, and then how to use their anger to assert their rights to be treated with more respect and consideration and 6) I provide these clients the corrective experiences of being re-parented so that they can mourn their childhood losses and shed their identifications as victims.
As I indicated,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such folks have anger management problems that stem from the fact that they remain victims of those who raised them. As long as they feel helpless and hopeless to change they regard being held accountable for their anger as adding insult to injury. The unfairness and injustice of being stuck with an impoverished sense of entitlement is compounded by the fact that to own their hostilities toward these parental figures is to render them entitled to nothing. They might as well be dead. At least if they surrender to demands that they work, sweat, suffer without complaints when they are treated unfairly they are then, entitled to ask for something. The sense of injustice eats away at these folks and they cannot forgive their parental figures who they continue to avenge in part through their self defeating acts.
These folks present as unlucky and unfortunate souls who have not separated who they are from how they were treated as children. They tell their stories of woe certain there are signs pasted to their backs that read: “Go ahead and kick me everyone else does!” In truth, the sad ironies are that they are not by any stretch of the imagination victims any longer. They are in actuality architects of their own pain and suffering; victims of their own self defeating patterns of behavior that they deny and minimize responsibility for. They are still invested in being victims in search of ideals of fairness and justice that cannot and will not be served. How these rigid and unrelenting patterns shape their chronic anger management problems is the subject of this article.
I have attempted with this brief article to describe for you the origins of anger management problems experienced by self defeating personalities; their characteristics and how they can be addressed through psychotherapy. You can teach someone everything they need to know about assertive communications, fighting fair, de-escalating conflicts, mindfulness, etc. However, if folks are still at war with images of abusive and neglectful parental figures, until they are ready to wave the white flag all the anger management classes in the world won’t empower these folks to change until they are ready to own the consequences of what growing up has left them with as their problems to solve.
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When Susan died suddenly, Kate experienced losing a second mother and her emotion was just like what she experienced when she lost her natural mother.
In the face of this experience, Kate could easily have opted to see this world as a cruel and unforgiving place where every time she has a degree of security it somehow gets taken away. She could have held onto this theme as she went through life, using the continuing sense of loss as a dramatic influence and something she would have in the back of her mind in all her relationships.
To avoid the hurt of future loss, she could have chosen never to get that close to anybody ever again.
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Loving your self is not about forgetting others. It’s about understanding your self and in that understanding you find successful happiness and completion as you begin to see that, as well as having external best friends, you also have an inner best friend; the inner you that’s there for your self with your self to bring your self to where you should be.
What you’re really doing is building a bridge between you and your self. You cherish the external relationships with your friends and family. Also cherish the internal relationship of your self with the You you want to be and so richly deserve to be. In your mind’s eye, learn to see your self as okay, loved and complete.
Feeling sad is perfectly alright. Feeling unloved by your self is perfectly sad.
Kate can use her sadness as a stepping-stone to a better place and a place where she has a much greater understanding of and belief in what she is capable of and what, in truth, her two mothers would have wanted for her. Her challenge is to want it for her self. I knew Susan well and know without any doubt that self-success and acceptance are what she wanted for the Kate she so loved.
Not every situation is as dramatic as the death of a loved one and not every situation will carry such profound emotion, imagery, messages and often enlightenment, but there is no doubt that as we go through life every experience gives us the chance to reassess our decision-making process, our judgments and our opportunities for correction.
Correction gives us choices about how we want to live and how we want to see ourselves. With or without drama, we can make the change from that wayward place of loss, vulnerability and indifference to a world which is ours in all its completion.
Learn to make decisions without the drama from that heart-felt place where you want to give your self the truth and the meaningful life that you know you deserve.
Beyond all you see around you shines the inner light of your true potential.
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